Partying...stress reliever.. is it?
This article is the result of an introspection done yesterday.
Yesterday, there was a celebration and a DJ night in the office campus, owing to some sports celebrations.
There was a band which played some songs and after the initial inertia everybody started dancing. Even I wanted to join the dance floor, and approached there with the other colleagus of mine (Male :) )...
But, I felt as if something was stopping me from dancing...Even when I was dancing I knew I was dancing because Iam trying to grab attention rather than dancing for the sake of it. Something was stopping me badly from so called freeing up myself.
I felt really out of place. Looking at the people who were dancing, I wondered if they were really enjoying the dance.
Even when I was in US or Malaysia most of the times I'd never dance because it freed up my mind or because it relieved me from stress.
I've been always this reserved person when trying to do things for myself. I cannot feel myself out of the world when in a group. Iam always conscious of the other people and hence I hardly do the honours to the dance floor!!
But, Iam intrigued about how is dance a stress reliever for non professional dancers. Let me not comment on other's interests, but for me it is another place to socialise probably, certainly not a stress buster for me. ( I have other ways to get relieved of stress for sure ;) ).
With tensions looming around, atleast for me, dancing is not a solution. Iam certainly not criticising the increasing puc culture or the people throbbing to these places to shake their assets.
All that I wanted to share was, honestly for the first time probably I realized that there are certain things which may remain if not a taboo but certainly not a place worth spending the time.
The article itself is a gloomy one, but a honest one for sure!!
Yesterday, there was a celebration and a DJ night in the office campus, owing to some sports celebrations.
There was a band which played some songs and after the initial inertia everybody started dancing. Even I wanted to join the dance floor, and approached there with the other colleagus of mine (Male :) )...
But, I felt as if something was stopping me from dancing...Even when I was dancing I knew I was dancing because Iam trying to grab attention rather than dancing for the sake of it. Something was stopping me badly from so called freeing up myself.
I felt really out of place. Looking at the people who were dancing, I wondered if they were really enjoying the dance.
Even when I was in US or Malaysia most of the times I'd never dance because it freed up my mind or because it relieved me from stress.
I've been always this reserved person when trying to do things for myself. I cannot feel myself out of the world when in a group. Iam always conscious of the other people and hence I hardly do the honours to the dance floor!!
But, Iam intrigued about how is dance a stress reliever for non professional dancers. Let me not comment on other's interests, but for me it is another place to socialise probably, certainly not a stress buster for me. ( I have other ways to get relieved of stress for sure ;) ).
With tensions looming around, atleast for me, dancing is not a solution. Iam certainly not criticising the increasing puc culture or the people throbbing to these places to shake their assets.
All that I wanted to share was, honestly for the first time probably I realized that there are certain things which may remain if not a taboo but certainly not a place worth spending the time.
The article itself is a gloomy one, but a honest one for sure!!
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